At 12 Tweaks | 12 Weeks, the goal isn’t perfection — it’s progress. We focus on building connection, resilience, and joy through practical, sustainable shifts that truly stick. Each cycle is a chance to make small changes that add up to meaningful transformation. Join the journey of steady, intentional growth.
This blog is a space for intentional growth — one tweak at a time. Through twelve week journeys, I’ll explore practical changes that strengthen habits, deepen relationships, enrich friendships, and improve work and personal life. Join me as we explore small, sustainable shifts that add up to meaningful transformation.
It’s impossible to examine my sense of self without thinking about the people who shaped me. When you really think about it, we’re all growing up at the same time — my parents, my siblings, and me. It feels strange to admit that out loud, but also important to honor.
I’m not entirely sure what to call this statement — and maybe the title isn’t the point. Over the past month, as I’ve written, reflected, and examined what I seek, what I cling to, how I define sustainable self‑care, and which parts of my character I value or am ready to release, I’ve been working toward distilling it all into one coherent expression. Is it an identity statement? A personal vision statement? Something like a north star? It feels like a blend of all of these — a clear, honest articulation of who I am right now and the direction I’m choosing next.
It’s week four — the final week of this self‑audit — and it feels like the moment to gather everything I’ve uncovered and tie it together. The past few weeks have been full of honest self‑exploration, and now I’m turning toward synthesis. This week is about shaping a personal mission statement, or perhaps an identity statement — something that captures the through‑line of who I am when I slow down enough to really listen.
I’ve intentionally returned to the idea of intentional self‑care. As a single, working mom, my version of self‑care usually looks like arriving at the gym early enough to sit in my car—coffee in hand, feel‑good music blasting—before I (mostly willingly) drag myself inside to start my workout. Other days, it’s wandering around Target with the same coffee, listening to a podcast, and pretending I’m a textile expert while investigating the thread count of every sheet set in the aisle.
Week 3 I Tweak 3: Renew + Release
We all have a lifeline. For some, it’s still undiscovered; for others, it’s the part of your identity embroidered on your soul. In a way, these 12 weeks are a kind of lifeline‑investigation period.
I think once you start writing, you start thinking differently. Since beginning this project, I’ve felt called to say the unsaid things, send the unsent messages, and be honest with myself and others. If nothing else, that feels like a win. This isn’t a get‑rich‑quick endeavor — my currency is self‑growth, after all.
I’ve had a challenging year. A year of very big, very hard decisions. Of self‑knowing conviction followed by panicked waves of second‑guessing. An ebb and flow of movement and then stagnation — feeling emotions so heavy and so deep that it was impossible for them not to alter the chemistry of my brain.
Week 1 I Tweak 1: Mindfulness Journaling
